Little. But, yes, since I was about 14 I've been pooping myself on purpose when giving the opportunity. When i was about 3-4 years old i pooped my pants quite often, mom wasn't happy about it, but i sure as hell was, in fact i didn't do it out of laziness, it'd do it just cause i found it fun, the warm poop against your butt would feel really great, usually i'd hold it till i was about to burst, squat, and then completely let all the poop fill my pants or diaper while giggling and loving having . I soiled them was not an option. I'm sorry to hear that. Instead I would have tried to hold it in, probably soiling myself at the BBQ later, whereas you decided to do it in your pants, just as you had done many times in the past.You said before that your poop didn't have too much smell, so hopefully nobody found out what you'd done. That became my challenge, but it also meant I started doing it intentionally. Let Go Of The Problem Yes, the child going number 2 in his pants is a huge problem. It's EXACTLY what you're describing. That just made me find way of hiding my problem and I became quite good at that. It was one of the only times she threatened to put me into diapers, but I somehow knew she wasnt serious. A brother and a Sister returns from a mall as they return they get experimental with one another and it gets messy underwear pantypoop messing +6 more # 9 The Abnormal Adventures of Taylor by <3 49.9K 130 2 Our sweet, beautiful and abdl protagonist, Taylor Miller, goes on many adventures that indulge her love for abdl-ism. pants, changing me at my grandmothers home would have been nearly Can I ask what this teacher did who decided to make you her "challenge"? I had this problem for most of Junior high to high school. When you say "she knew my person experience", do you mean that she also had soiling problems at some time? Hi Anonymous, Thats a feeling I can I understand.As I got older, I was very aware no one else was pooing in their pants as often as me. 1) I think kids with encopresis often have great imaginations maybe connected.I read a great book called ADD The Edison Gene. My parents thought I was lazy or doing it on purpose and going to great lengths to hide it only confirmed their belief. That usually meant being a far distance from my house so when it came to doing number 2 I would just do it in my underwear rather that stop exploring or doing whatever I was doing. It seems that old habits die hard when it comes to bowel movements. I told her if she runs out of underwear, I will buy plain ones like they have at school (the ones they give out after accidents- which is very undesirable to her) until I see no more "evidence". 1:50. Her rewards were questionable, but one thing is for sure I was determined my underwear were going to stay clean. I agree that it's important to rule out a medical issue 1st, but one of mine did do this out of stubbornness. I also had an amazing imagination. May 8, 2021. SHE'S FIVE. I must have been more imaginative then most because I could play alone for hours without getting board. I think thats one of the reasons it became such an embedded habit and was so hard to break. i suggest you stop bullying this child and get her a medical evaluation, and then work on helping her, not shaming her. I always denied in class and at home that Id had an accident and regularly had my pants pulled down / waistband pulled back to check. When I had finished I resumed Hi. I sometimes wonder what would have happened if I had been discovered early, before it became a habit. underwear. In the same way that you may It's VERY common at this age, and when this happens, they CAN'T control what comes out when. Peppa Pig Play-Doh Toilet Training Accident Pees Her Pants and Poops. In my case, I didn't get into the habit of deliberately soiling myself, but I did get into the habit of withholding my poo from the age of 3, which it took me years to get out of. After the X-ray revealed severe constipation we put him on a daily laxative, took about a month but eventually the stomach ache and streaky undies went away. It's a bit like an older child sucking their thumb, but rather more extreme. That just increased my believe my body was different and doing it in my underwear was normal for me. My cheeks burned and I sweated with embarrassment, but I said no. Not only was someone finally listening to me I wasnt the only one and made me feel amazing. hello james. This happened to me. It came as quite a shock many years later to find out that I wasn't.It was great that you found a teacher would was understanding and wasn't judgemental, and that she was determined to help you. discovered. Help her develop. I thought about telling the driver to stop but that was a terrifying. There were times teachers or other people suspected someone had done it, but it was rare and never directed at me. If she is doing it on purpose, I have no idea how to help, but DON'T ASSUME that this is the case. like you i would always withhold until i was very desperate. I was far too cornered with my personal hygiene even as a baby. Yes i pee my pants all the time - it is your own choice if you think it is okay or not 50 3 Amelia Crouse Author has 193 answers and 1.4M answer views 1 y Related Have you ever pooped or peed your pants? I never liked the feeling of having messy underwear. Walking home from school with a full-on poop accident in your underwear is bad enough without adding urine to the mix! Verat Yabrewi654. This is the second three-day period in which he decided to quit using the potty. Or? Haven't had this happen exactly, but I do have kids with lactose intolerance who've had a few leaks in their underpants from diarrhea type stools. humiliating half-hour bus ride home in my soiled pants, absolutely reeking of It was a sunny and clear morning in the Indian Himalayan foothills. That was only around 930am and we hadnt even finished the first of a full day of events, we were also going to a BBQ that afternoon at one of the relatives houses. She must have had an acute sense of smell because no one else seemed to agree. I have never worked out the reasoning behind it and was wondering if you had any thoughts? Road Trip (BOYXBOY) by FlynnLandvik. If she's having a problem, my approach should also open the possibility of her talking to you - "But Mom, it's NOT my choice! 1. I do not agree with such advice.You say that leaving you messy did not encourage you to stop soiling, and I don't think it would in my case either. Otherwise there is nothing to hold! Seeing And if you're going to yell at her, of COURSE she's going to deny/pretend. There was a separate group for girls.The rule in the school was that if you had several pooping accidents, you were encouraged to attend. Additionally Id had issues throughout year 7 with pooping my bedtime nappy and, again, out of ease (and frustration) in a morning my Mum would change me. Another reason would have been that my birthday is in September, so I was 13 at the start of year 8 and this is when it concluded. Whatever you decide to do, make sure to do it quietly and without attention because she is definitely feeding off the reaction. Ruby Coles, who received an honors bachelor of social work, admitted she . When we got in the bus and I sat on my seat it was instantly clear how big the load was. I couldn't hold it, mainly because when I was this age I had a weak bladder. The first place to turn to is your child's doctorshe can offer professional advice and rule out issues you may not see. and my mother reprimanded me throughout the journey. You have to see it for yourself. Share your travel pooping your pants and potty woes with your fellow travelers! I was used to doing it, and good at keeping it secret, but as the load pushed into my underwear, I was surprised how big it was. I can recall at home and school various occasions when I was encouraged to change myself, but these werent particularly successful as I didnt clean properly. Well I supposed Im just going to have to believe you and your old enough to deal with your situation yourself. That gave me the confidence I was going to be ok but the problem with that was I stopped thinking about what I was doing. The medication my mother gave eliminated most of the odor and wash my own underwear made keeping it secret a lot easier. Physically speaking, how did you poop in each other's pants? When I tried to go at home nothing happened, or it hurt too much, so I usually just ignored what my body was telling me. p.s. On impact, I instantly shit my pants. We didnt get to go on many, so I was excited from the moment I woke up that morning. Like me my friends were impatient, so taking too long meant catching up with them, wherever we were going. Hi anonymous,have you worked out why you did it for so long?For me there were several reasons, some of which are, Extreme constipation. Fear of using the toilets at school, or virtually anywhere else except home. Being easily distracted. *Poops pants* Ah. The anxiety of starting high school seemed to make my constipation even worse and I spent most of the first day with a load in my underwear. say that a baby has filled his nappy, some parents refer to a child who has Neither of us cared about having soiled underwear even if we were like that the whole day. I can also understand how doing it in your pants came to seem normal to you, in the same way that doing it in the toilet was normal for other kids. a lack of water. For the first time ever I actually felt the poo First take her to the pediatrician & have When i was about 3-4 years old i pooped my pants quite often, mom wasn't happy about it, but i sure as hell was, in fact i didn't do it out of laziness, it'd do it just cause i found it fun, the warm poop against your butt would feel really great, usually i'd hold it till i was about to burst, squat, and then completely let all the poop fill my pants or diaper while giggling and loving having that warm poop load my pants, but then came the best part, after i was done pooping i'd then sit in my huge mess and have fun squishing it all over my butt, the feeling of all my poop spreading all over my butt was the greatest thing ever, and i didn't mind the smell, in fact i liked being so stinky back then (now i don't anymore don't worry), and the fun didn't stop here, because i wasn't the only little boy in the neighborhood to enjoy messing his pants, there were a couple boys that loved it just as much, usually we'd all hide in the numerous spots in the neighborhood out of parents and other kids view and play a lot of games around that, the most common one was just us sitting in a rough circle and pooping our pants/diapers all at the same time and then smell each other's messes, but we got more "creative" than that, sometimes we'd poop in each other's pants and then their owner would wear them and enjoy the feeling of poopy pants, sometimes we'd all poop in one diaper, sometimes we made a contest of who could make the biggest mess in his pants, oh and if we pooped our pants we wouldn't come back home to change, we'd just keep pooping in it, even if it started leaking, it was just more fun like that, but eventually our parents started punishing us for it couple weeks before we started school and we had to stop. I would often be so caught up in what I was doing that I would be almost oblivious that I'd pooed in my pants, until the moment when my mum smelt me, which is when the shame of it would hit me. would have just done that in my pants as well and created an even more horrendous This might be a medical condition and not an "attention" or power struggle. I know how humiliating it felt to have to stand lower half naked in front of my mother as she cleaned poo off of me when I was 11, and I'm sure it must have been worse for you as you were still being changed by your Mum until your were 13, as well as by school staff, and then as a teenager having to wash your soiled underwear while your Mum watched you doing it.I never wore nappies at night, but if I had then my child's brain would probably not be too upset if they were soiled in the morning as it was better than having an accident in my pants during the day. The day she made him get out of bed and play, ten minutes later he said " [my sister], I pooped my pants on purpose." How do you break your child's pacifier habit? did not need toys or other children or adults to have a fun time playing. Have you ever pooped your pants by accident or on purpose? toilet training too early . Hi again Anonymous, How did you find out about the support group, were you told to attend, or did you find out yourself? Jukin Media. Almost 3 Year Old and Still Refusing to Poop in the Toilet!! The fairly small back garden had no grass, few flowers and mostly Gym are at sundays evenings very quiet and usually Im been alone in there. But it turned out to be a really good group that taught us coping techniques and strategies to keep our underwear and pants clean. Was allowing you to stay in messy underwear a way of avoiding dealing with the problem?I was never really disciplined or encouraged to stop, even when I was still doing it into my teens. Little Girl Poops in Her Lunch Box Causing Mom to Throw Up. I think my mum hoped that this would encourage me to stop soiling. Hey Jason,I found out about the support group through the teacher, whose class I had an accident in. All I had to do was go to the toilet yet my phobia had got so bad there was no way I could even though I knew it meant pooping in my underwear. my pants were messy. Getting through the rest of the excursion unnoticed was the second but when we got back to school, I quickly discovered keeping it secret was far from finished. 9 year old son always withheld his poo at school said that if he came home in dirty In my case, I'm sure it wouldn't have been too long before someone was pulling back the waistband of my underwear! We developed a sense of humor about our problem. favorite_border. Trending Taraka Ratna. I don't think looking at it like she is doing it "on purpose" is your best way of thinking about this situation. And yet, despite all logic that would explain otherwise, I pooped my pants. The first part of that was not being discovered during the bus ride to our destination, but no one seemed to notice. Ketta 666. I kind of get what you mean by feeling like you have a secret no one knows, and sort of enjoying this feeling. I'm sure you'll find a I agree, habits can be very hard to break. http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Poop-My-Pants-On-Purpose/901933 Spinster Regular I dont want to live on this earth anymore. Either way it slowly got worse and by the time I was in my teens it was a full-blown phobia. It really is a horrible moment you know that you've pooed yourself in the company of others, when you know that you're the one who's the cause of the terrible smell and you just have to hope that no-one finds out that it's you.I also remember the girl sitting next to me in class accusing me of having farted, when I'd actually had a small accident in my pants. charlesandchase. The stimulation of the vagus nerve triggers a drop in heart rate and blood pressure that can result in dizziness and lightheadedness, and in some people, fainting (vasovagal syncope). Hi Anonymous, Being part of a support group and knowing you were not the only one with the problem must have been great. You can have your shame, just don't eat it too. He wants to lay in bed all day. 0:33. home of my maternal grandmother, the only grandparent I ever knew. But many kids beyond the age of toilet teaching (generally older than 4 years) who soil their underwear have a condition known as encopresis (en-kah-PREE-sis). That fear soon disappeared after we got there, when no one suspected anything, and his aunt went home. It seemed like the only time she ever really made an issue out of it was when it was going to affect her directly. He really couldn't help it. I sat in the tub feeling ashamed The issue is pervasive sufficient that in 2017, two bystanders on the New York Metropolis Marathon brandished handmade indicators. LOL: POOPING AT SCHOOL. I was almost 13 by the time I finally stopped pooping my pants. We would usually tell each other if we needed to go but neither of us ever wanted to go home because that usually meant the end of exploring. My phobia with public toilets was also part of my decision not to go, but the main reason was the challenge to keep my secret. Pin for Later: Megan Stetzel Megan is a girl that shouldn't travel. I also did it when I felt upset or embarrassed about something that had happened. 1. m1tanker632. Interesting.. I understand how embarrassing this must have been for both of you, particularly if you were still having accidents when you were teenagers, and messing yourself at school, which I largely avoided.Pull-ups weren't invented when I was a child, but I doubt that my mother would have let me wear "protection" in any case. He lined all the boys up and asked who had pooped, but none of us confessed. my life, I pooed in my pants on purpose. On average, how much poo was in your pants? Everything was ok for the first couple of day until I realized I was very constipated and no matter how hard I tried nothing came out. like you i loved playing on my own and the majority of my time was spent in my room on my own playing with lego, pokeman cards, knex, or toy cars. Walk up to it and point the stain towards the air. 6:29. I Poop My Pants On Purpose bornkiller Administrator In your girlfriends snatch January 2013 edited January 2013 in Spurious Generalities The comments kinda explain it. If your kid is anything like any of mine, 80% odd this will work. CALMLY talk to her. Sweet relief. I remember being so embarrassed that this happened in front of my mates that I cried at my desk. I took a "sportsman's chance" hoping it . Obviously this wasnt the case. When she first asked me, I acted like I didnt know what she was talking about, but she then told me how she knew. I was still doing it when I started high school so rather than try to stop, I made a very conscious decision to hide my problem. I couldnt explain how constipated I was so creating a story was the next best thing, so thats exactly what I did. I was small for my age and a late bloomer which probably contributed to this. remember being bored during the whole of my childhood, I could always find It seems that we were similar in a lot of ways, I started soiling because I thought that I could make the feeling of needing to poo go away without going to the toilet. Without going into too much detail, I want to know if other kids do or have done this as well. I remember some girl loudly saying; "who shat themselves?" sometimes the bump was quite small meaning there wasnt much poo in my pants and sometimes it was very big meaning i had done lots of poo. She almost full on crapped in her underwear and then sat in it for 3 hrs. Now she is wearing underwear she doesn't like. The Science . i pooped my pants pictures. I dont think the second theory fits, but oddly enough I did suck my thumb when I was asleep. did not sell cheap underwear in those days, so throwing out my pants everytime A few months later, I saw for the first time a classmate wet herself with a huge puddle loudly splashing on the floor, and it was only then that I truly realized how much worse I would have made my already bad situation. one of my most painful memories of my childhood, certainly the worst that was a When my friend and I got back no one said anything, so I was completely oblivious until his mum pulled me aside and questioned me. An hour later, they had dinner. I loved the long summer interservice rivalry japan hoi4. He also had accidents well into elementary school but they happened when he was super excited or scared, and he was mortified - totally different thing. I remember one guy talking about the time he pooped in his snow pants on a ski trip. This is . Maybe it started as a simple fun blast from the past the first time, then she decided since she was getting so much attention it was fun to repeat it. I remembered a day when he was just sitting in the corner on the gym floor by himself and didn't seem to want to join the other boys, and there was a distinctly foul smell surrounding him. Instead I thought she wasnt going to understand and continued to do it the rest of our holiday.That way of thinking was probably a lot to do with my parents. I can remember being given permission to wet in my pants on several occasions. Try not to pay too much attention to it - just clean it up and don't make a fuss about it. Being unaccustomed to having poo in my pants, and thoroughly disgusted by the sticky feeling of it shifting back and forth against my buttocks as I walked along, I even pondered if the addition of moisture would alleviate that awful feeling. Then another time, I pooped massively in my pull up while walking to my class. Mar 3, 2016. I withheld a fecal explosion on the NYC subway from 210th Street to Columbus Circle, sweating like a terrorist. And they can be easily remedied in most cases. Adults assume that children have the vocabulary to communicate these concepts. however, when i did poo in my pants i always felt the poo leaving my bum and going in my pants/nappy. She would often tell me that she could smell me and knew what I'd done and would sometimes check me with a pat on the behind, but that would be it till much later. At the end of the conversation she said something like, ok, well at your age you should know better, so I supposed we are just going to have leave it at that. Hi Jason, thanks for sharing your story. uQuiz.com is a free online quiz making tool. That meant they would start to come out by themselves and it also didnt hurt. Baby Alive Doll Feeding Pooping Diaper Change - Baby Doll Eats Food Poops Nappy Change Pretend Play. Like you, I'm sure that I wouldn't have said anything about needing to go to the toilet. I started washing my own clothes quite young and also used cologne long before any of my friends or classmates. I think she was often too busy to clean me up and I agree with you there was an element of 'out of sight out of mind'.